Reasons For Relationship Breakups
In today's society the rate of relationship breakups between married and dating couples are alarming; in fact, it's more than anybody could anticipate few decades ago. Nowadays people marry and divorce at the drop of a hat, while boyfriends and girlfriends drop each other and switch partners like there's no tomorrow.
Why is relationship breakups easily tolerated in our society today; and what is the root of it all?
There are literally hundreds of reasons why people breakup their relationship, but for married couples the majority of their problems often emanate from extra marital issues or money. For dating couples, money problems is hardly an issue since dating couples don't usually live together as often ' however, infidelity is a major factor in relationship breakup amongst dating couples plus a whole host of other issues.
It's all about character!
Believe it or not, character plays a big part in breakups, be it money related or infidelity related breakups. When you talk about the fabric of one's character, you're really talking about one's integrity, honesty, and of course, the ability to resist temptation.
Think about it, if one has shady character, is dishonest and easily tempted to do anything at spur of the moment, you can be rest assured that cheating or misappropriating funds, or even steeling from a spouse should come natural to that individual. Nobody is immune to cheating or having lapse in judgment once in every while ' but what often lead to relationship breakups is how rampant these issues are repeated.
Anybody is capable of extra marital affair in a marriage, and so are those who cheat in a dating relationship. When it comes to money problems in a relationship the underlying problem is the same; a partner who refuses to contribute financially to the relationship is no different than the person who is capable but refuses to work, or a person who misappropriates funds from joint account.
Ultimately, what separates those who constantly give in to temptations and those who try to resist it is 'character.' What you do when the opportunity to misbehave presents itself says more about the fabric of your being ' because the opportunity for you to cheat presented itself does not mean that you must succumb to it.
Relationship breakups attributable to money and infidelity problems are not going away from our society soon. Perhaps, what we can do is to curtail it to a minimum by building up our character threads, and by also refusing to fall into devil or alcohol made me do it syndrome ' instead, we should always own up to our mistakes.
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